Tips for Avoiding Disaster

Tips for Avoiding Disaster: A Checklist

The ultimate list of shit you must do (before and during the meal) by Natasha Feldman

Check for Allergies


  • Ask your guests if they have any dietary restrictions before you plan your menu. Hospital visits are a real dinner party buzzkill.


✅ Don't say you're going to hand-make pasta on a day with 17 meetings


  • Be realistic about what you can do and delegate as needed.


✅ Plates are important


  • Washing silverware and dishes between courses sucks. If you don't have enough, ask a friend to bring extra


✅ Your mom was right, clean as you go


  • The tidier you cook, the less you'll have to clean at the end of the night.


✅ Take out the trash


  • Especially if it's full or smells, c'mon. 
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From The Dinner Party Project by Natasha Feldman. Copyright © 2023 by Natasha Feldman. Reprinted by permission of Harvest, an imprint of HarperCollins Publishers.

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